Posted by B2chica on April 10, 2006, at 13:27:34
In reply to I feel so hurt and sad and mad too., posted by happyflower on April 10, 2006, at 13:04:38
(((((happyflower))))))
it hurts. i'm sorry.
it's such a unique relationship. you have to find just the right person- usually someone you would be friends with outside therapy, then you share your deepest most intimite thoughts and secrets-which draws you closer. then, just as you get to feeling strong and good and could have a really good relationship with someone, that someone says, ok, we're done.
i hate the rules too. basically you have to find someone you can have a long term relationship with, but then the rules say, when you're done, you're done.
it's like some twisted dating service that says come here and meet your perfect match, you can date but you can never get married or live together!i know it's not something you can probably hear right now but kind of rework your mind a bit and cherish what you do have. try not to think too much more past the moment. i know we're not wired that way. but it's depressing if we think about what we can't have, and what we are loosing. it hurts way too much.
i'm sorry it hurts so much.
poster:B2chica
thread:631393
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