Posted by starloree on April 4, 2006, at 20:56:52
i do not like that word at all. this pain and lonliness is not fun and then to have it labeled as transference, making it seem not real...i have already posted my expereinces on this on a borderline personality website and they all ganged up on me because i wanted to talk about it, and i was excited and tortured...i was really confused yet also liked thinking about my T (therapist). but this board seems to be very supportive, much more than the other board i posted at. i just now read daisy's post on therapist love, and her post on it made me CRY, because it was sooo beautiful! i don't know if i am ready to accept that i could love my therapist without being with him (oh by the way, i am married, 23 and seperated, in a month anyways)but i am still mainly thinking of my T on a friend basis, with a little physical intimacy, this is what i am fantasizing about...wishing for. i have no friends so it is understandable. it is not really transference (at leats not in my mind, but my T also says he consulted with his workplace's psychodynamic expert, and he doesn't think it is transference either, from what it sounds like). anyways i just wnated to put a little post up saying i am happy to have found this place that looks to be really supportive on this topic! thanks all!
starloree
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