Posted by milly on March 24, 2006, at 7:34:53
In reply to Re: cant, posted by living06 on March 24, 2006, at 4:19:58
I'm sorry to hear your pain and I can't offer any answers only to say I'm there with you.
He absorbs 98% of my waking thought and most of my unconscious thought aswell.I am married but i feel as though I am having an affair because given the choice between time with hubby or therapy I'd choose therapy everytime.
I've read the book too and although it helped a little to make me see I wasn't alone it didn't answer 'when will this go? for me either'
Sometimes I don't want it to go but mostly it is almost to painful to bare.I don't believe it is all transference (and I don't think he does either)
I might be able to answer better in a while because my therapy comes to an end in 2 weeks, not because I'm done but because the system in the UK sucks and I've had all they will pay for.
At the moment though it feels like I'm approaching the death of my dearest friend, best lover most significant other and I have no T to help with this because it is him I am losing.
Sorry I think I rambled on I meant to say I feel for you and ((((living06))))
milly
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