Posted by living06 on March 24, 2006, at 4:19:58
In reply to Re: cant » living06, posted by All Done on March 24, 2006, at 2:35:14
>yes I have read the book and have been reading it .. it is my 3rd time reading it and yes she is a psychodynamic T.
I am just wondering when will these feelings stop that I have for her. It is not easy for me even the book does not take away my felings for her. it seems like they get stronger and stronger by the days. it gets to the point of tears when i do not hear from her or able to go to Therapy. i feel this is going to drive me nuts on this end, she knows how I feel about her because she even said it was transference and she is ok with it but its tearing me up inside day to day. i have been feeling this way for at least a year now, when does it end??????????
thank you
Hi, living06.
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> These feelings can be so confusing. What kind of therapy are you doing with your T? If it's psychodynamic, it's probably important that you discuss your feelings with her. I know it's hard to do, but it's where all the "important stuff" is to be analyzed.
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> And the book "In Session: The Bond Between Women and Their Therapists" is obviously written from the female clients' perspectives, but I think it might be helpful to explain what you're experiencing, regardless of gender.
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> Good luck and let us know if you have any questions. Many of us have been there or are there.
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> Take care,
> Laurie
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