Posted by Susan47 on March 21, 2006, at 15:55:39
In reply to Plus there is more, posted by happyflower on March 15, 2006, at 9:28:42
Hey happyflower, I just had this thought with your first post on this thread, the thought was that I heard somewhere that you're supposed to fall in love with your therapist, that is one of the jobs you do in therapy .. but I don't know what they're supposed to do to handle that.
Then about the butt-smacking, well maybe your T is just thinking nothing more than that his colleague is a bit out of line, and should be called on it, and if he did that again I'd wonder about it for sure, maybe even call him on it myself .. which is always kind of fun, but men really hate it. Hahah. Wonder why.? .. they act like little kids who got caught with their hand in the cookie jar .. maybe your T will use this as an excuse to say he can't see you anymore .. I mean, if he's really responding the way you think he is, even though you keep saying it's not real, well once he realized it he'd only have a couple of choices, one of which would hurt you terribly and the other which would require him to do some growing he might not be ready for .. hahaha, that wasn't meant that way. :)
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