Posted by daisym on March 17, 2006, at 19:50:35
In reply to Is this the article?, posted by Dinah on March 17, 2006, at 8:11:59
This is one of the articles I go back to when I'm trying to convince myself that it is OK for me to feel like I feel. It is so clear that one of the responsibilities of the therapist is to accept the insecure attachment and work with it.
But...I am convincing myself. Not my therapist. I think it must be really hard to have the need to "teach" your therapist how to work with this stuff, and I suspect that as a client you really can't. Because it is suspect. It would seem like gratifying the patient, and we know that doing that isn't necessarily theraputic. Even if it would be.
I'm sorry things are so hard. I hope it gets better soon.
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