Posted by wishingstar on March 11, 2006, at 20:54:50
In reply to Re: tranference or real feelings? » wishingstar, posted by muffled on March 10, 2006, at 21:59:40
It makes me so happy to see that you all really do get this. I'm glad I'm not alone here.
I can really relate to what you said about trusting then not trusting and feeling like you're going to get dropped. I'm afraid of that all the time, but like yours, my T keeps telling me she isnt going to. If I were my T, I'd be sick of me by now.. but I think many of them have some amazing patience.. or at least they act like it. I guess you have to have that to be a therapist in some ways.
I dont know if shes harsh or not. Sometimes I feel like she is, but overall, I think I'm probably misinterpreting and not being as clear as I should be. And you're right, whether its transference or not, it still feels real...
Sounds like we have a lot of similar feelings with our Ts. Good luck with yours! :)
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