Posted by pegasus on March 10, 2006, at 21:59:09
In reply to tranference or real feelings?, posted by wishingstar on March 10, 2006, at 21:24:39
Hmm. I have a hard time understanding how labeling your feelings of being unheard as transference is supposed to help. It seems rather obvious to me that that's just going to make you feel more unheard. I would think that a more helpful approach would be to do whatever it takes to help you feel heard, even if it has to be rather extreme at first. Such as keeping her thoughts about transference to herself, for starters. And maybe then asking you what you want her to hear.
So, can I ask you what you'd like her to hear that she hasn't been hearing?
peg
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