Posted by pegasus on March 4, 2006, at 9:41:58
In reply to Re: Phone therapy with ex-T?, posted by Emily Elizabeth on March 4, 2006, at 0:15:13
Hi EE,
I appreciate your thoughts on this. I guess my thinking is that the therapy I've been having is just a shell of my former therapy anyway. And I've done pretty well on the phone with isolated sessions in the past. It seems like it would be better than going back to T2.
But you're right that there's no guarantee he'd agree to do it. I can understand why Ts wouldn't prefer that mode, and might just refuse to do it. I guess that's my biggest fear - that he'd "reject" me again.
Oh, which is unfair to him. He didn't reject me the first time. He just abandoned me. ;) And I'm sure he wouldn't see it that way. He did as much as he could to transition me to another T. It just didn't help that much, which isn't his fault.
You're right that I need to not go back to T2. She was helpful, but I need more than I could get with her.
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