Posted by Pfinstegg on March 3, 2006, at 21:34:45
In reply to Re: Help/Support/Advice ****TRIGGER*** (Everybody), posted by TherapyGirl on March 3, 2006, at 20:25:32
These posts about "not knowing" mean a lot to me, as I suspect I may have been, but it is not a clear memory- just little hints and slips of the tongue which have made both me and my analyst suspicious. It's clear, in my explicit memory, that he was cold, physically very abusive, and that he sexualized everything- alcoholic, too. I'm learning that there are always going to be huge numbers of things in one's implicit memory, which may never become definite, known memories. It's hard to accept, and I actually hope that as our work goes on, I will be able to know more. But, even if we never do, I think we can become much more accepting of the unconscious and semi-conscious parts of our minds- hopefully, that will bring us more peace and happiness.
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