Posted by Racer on February 11, 2006, at 12:14:18
In reply to Ex-Therapist ... a therapist's effect, posted by Susan47 on February 11, 2006, at 10:35:20
But the really important part of all this isn't what he was aware of, you do realize that, don't you, Susan? It's YOU, what you were aware of -- not about him, but about you. What need did this fill for you? How did this affect you?
It's good to see that you really do seem to be getting over it, but maybe changing the focus from whether or not he was aware of his effect on you, to how you were effected? Do you think that might help you get over it faster?
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