Posted by Susan47 on February 11, 2006, at 10:35:20
What bothers me more than a little bit, what's been bothering me for years, since the first time I clued into him .. is how much does he know of his effect on women? How much does he or did he use it, without acknowledging his use of it? How many women have walked in ready to transfer and been blindsided by his sexuality, which is .. what is latent? Latent .. yet given away, taken home every day, you'd think and hope, to his wife and the women in his private life, but maybe there weren't or wasn't enough of that, and he was using us to fill in the gaps, so to speak, and taking us home wrapped in bubbles and fantasy, and bringing back remnants to his work, and never intending ever to have that known, but ... or maybe, just maybe, he was aware of himself, and his ladies, his female "patients", or clients as we more properly were .. maybe the term "patient" helps someone like that justify his assumed role .. because he had to wrap his role up in gauze, he'd wrapped himself in gauze too.
I hope I'm wrong, I hope this is just me thinking in a paranoid way. But if that's true, then I must be coming out of it. If I'm right, though .. if I'm right, then I hope he's stopped.
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