Posted by LegWarmers on February 11, 2006, at 11:10:28
In reply to Re: What is so annoying though, posted by Susan47 on February 10, 2006, at 14:23:44
> Well when your head is full of negativity and little else, there's not much left to see the other side with, you know? So a lot of things won't make sense and WILL be hurtful because you don't know how to see things any other way. It just makes sense. It really does. It's your thinking, it's your interpretation that's a problem, not what they said. Most people really aren't into hurting anybody, it's true, it's really true, most people WANT you to like them and want to be around them.
That is so true!
> But when you're not sure about who you are, when you haven't discovered your wonderful-ness, it doesn't feel like that .. and you can't give much of your real self, not having discovered it, yet.
Yeah, I see what you mean.
> I'm a slow learner. I'm 48 going on 49 going on what should have been, probably, 19 or so ...? Don't feel bad. Some people aren't ever lucky enough to be able to work on these things.
: )
> No you're not, you're totally aware of what negativity's doing to your life, and it DOES feel crazy, when you start seeing that there's something else in life, I mean, where have you BEEN all these years??? Thanks for valuing my opinion, as it is only that, and always strongly worded, in spite of my good intentions.
i do value your opinion and I have a tendency to word strongly too, so I understand. I avoid it here as much as I can. And I always see your intentions as good.
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