Posted by JenStar on January 29, 2006, at 22:11:25
In reply to Caring gap, posted by Dinah on January 29, 2006, at 16:26:27
hi Dinah,
I TOTALLY get that you want to be a Jessica to him! *I* always want to be a Jessica, too, to many people. I completely understand the desire to be cared for in a way that is more special than the rest of the crowd.I think you MUST be special to him in a certain way, because you've been together for so long. How could you not? But also, it would probably be inappropriate for him to say it, right? Because it would be crossing boundaries to tell you that you mean more than other clients? Or would it be OK to say it?
I don't know. But I'm willing to believe you ARE special to him.
JenStar
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