Posted by frida on January 29, 2006, at 18:23:15
In reply to Maybe I don't feel better, posted by Dinah on January 29, 2006, at 16:52:18
Dear Dinah,
Oh, this post you wrote..made me cry.
I think it expresses it so sweetly and painfully too.And I do think you're a Jessica to your T.
I'm a teacher too, and that's right, as much as I care about *all* my students, there are some that find the way straight to my heart,usually it's the ones who are more in need of love and affection and protection..
and I tell you, for example, I've had a student in my teaching practices, years from now, and I see her now and I love hearing from her, and helping her and being there for her if she needs me. I love her dearly, she even has confided in me that she's in T.
What I'm trying to say is that I'm sure that you are special to your T and he truly cares about you. You've shared a history together, a lot of time, emotions, moments...a lot. That is real and important for you and for him too.
He's been with you all that time..he knows you and cares about you.My T also tells me that yes, she does love me and cares about me and I'm important for her. I try to find this in her actions, and I must admit I do find evidence to this :-)
I know it's hard for us to believe but they are human beings and they have feelings, and we can touch their hearts. I truly believe it.
I do believe my T cares and loves me. She has proved that to me.
I know it's different from a friendship, maybe that is what your T was trying to explain. It is different.But it doesn't mean they can't love us.
I do believe your T does love youlove and support,
Frida (after having waited a month and a half for my T's return, she's about to come back :-)))
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