Posted by LegWarmers on January 29, 2006, at 0:41:47
In reply to Re: Had a bad/good day/session, posted by alexandra_k on January 28, 2006, at 22:51:38
>sounds like... it doesn't feel right. and it is the fit between you guys that isn't working out so well.
maybe... time for a change?
> or maybe... hurting does show progress. because... maybe you need to be a little vulnerable in order to get to the stuff that has the power to hurt (and results in hurt at other times).
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> kind of like... using a needle to dig for a prickle under the surface of the skin.
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> maybe...
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> hard to know. i always question myself around this stuff... if i stay am i being dependent? am i sticking with a relationship where there is a poor fit? am i letting them hurt me for no good reason?
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> if i go am i running away? am i avoiding what i need to do in order to get better?
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> i don't know. no idea.. sorry.
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> i think... only you could figure that out. maybe... in talking to your t about it the answer will become clear.I think I have figured out that I don't trust the t's I have encountered. And this is preventing me from opening up and getting the most out of therapy. Maybe i should take a break for now.
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