Posted by fairywings on January 11, 2006, at 19:23:22
In reply to I think I'm going to tell my mother **trigger**, posted by antigua on January 11, 2006, at 9:54:45
(((antigua)))
I agree, this is an incredibly tough decision, and it's good that you have some time to talk this out with your T. My question is, how would you feel if she were gone, and you no longer had that chance? Would you be okay and able to move on? Would you still let her approval rule you, even though she was gone. I'm not trying to be harsh, it's just that this is what happened to me. I never spoke up for myself.
I'd just look at what you can say from every angle, and what her responses might be from the best all the way to the worst, and how you will feel about it.
Good luck with this,
fw
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