Posted by alexandra_k on January 3, 2006, at 21:04:52
In reply to Re: bad day » Dinah, posted by alexandra_k on January 3, 2006, at 21:00:19
i have one friend... who goes on about how i'd be 'alright looking' if i made more of an effort...
to wear feminine clothes...
to wear make-up...but 'alright looking' in what sense?
for the people who are appraising me sexually?i don't think i want that...
i'm sure there is a happy medium...
but looks really aren't all that important to me...
and really...
i want to meet people who feel the same and accept me for whats on the inside...
otherwise...
you never know whether people do see what is on the inside...
you never know whether people care about what is on the inside...the plight of the beautiful person.
really.
my friend is stunning...
and she dresses up to it.
and what does it buy her?
a bunch of superficial guys who use her for her body and typically go on to abuse her...
she doesn't see the pattern...
but i do.
and i wouldn't want that
i'd rather be me...
poster:alexandra_k
thread:594911
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