Posted by allisonross on December 11, 2005, at 23:18:37
In reply to Re: Done Explaining...I am exhausted » allisonross, posted by B2chica on December 11, 2005, at 15:41:20
> (((B2Chica))))
heck that's a lot of effort for anything, let alone reading and responding. you sound like you've been hurt.
Yup.
just so i can let you know. i'm sorry you were in that kind of marriage
Thankyou, sweetie!
but it sounds like christmas alone would be better than with 'him'. Thank goodness you got out in time. it must have taken a LOT of courage and strength to get this far.
It really did. I had a horrific struggle with the decision.
> i don't know if i responded, or if i was one that you felt were being criticized by, but if i did, i didn't mean too.No, you didn't criticize me...not to worry!
> and you shouldn't feel quite so alone, babble is there for you.
Thankyou!
>
> if it's not too personal, is there ANY chance you can go see your grandchildren?Well, I could go, but I would be very uncomfortable (people would be talking about me, etc), and I would be re-visiting the pain all over again; and seeing the poeple that should have supported, loved, understood, or at LEAST talked to me about what was happening.
They voted on ballots, and walked out of the door, without a word. These were people I had known for 31 years!
not sure what i missed but i guess i was hoping. i mean you have a right to go to any church to worship that you wish, right?
Absolutely, but the church I was voted out of; is the church where my grandchildren (still) are.>
> be kind to yourself
> b2c.Thank you so much for your kind words. They are healing, and SO MUCH appreciated.
hugs, Ally
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