Posted by alexandra_k on December 5, 2005, at 19:20:21
In reply to Re: I read **trigger**Suffer the little inner children » alexandra_k, posted by muffled on December 5, 2005, at 19:01:50
> I printed out the stuff you said about how it is with the inside ones.
okay. though of course... that is just how *i* think it is with the inside ones... i think... maybe different people need to figure out how they are best to see what is going on for them. i'm still figuring things out for me. and i don't know how much other people need a different explanation or whatever... its just stuff that i guess i have come to. in thinking about it... and in writing about it and the 'story' kind of unfolds. and with the help of other people and what they have to say as well.
> I MAY give that to her so she can understand about it and then tell her to BACK OFF on that sh*t.
yeah. it might be most helpful... to think about how you would like her to handle it. because it might well be helpful for you to talk about it with her. i guess i'm just wary about the therapist becoming the locus of communication between different parts. i guess i think... that that strategy is more likely to maintain / increase problems that the different parts have communicating with one another.
i know some therapists think that is the way to go about increasing communication... but i'm not convinced...
> If the kid wants to say something that bad, well, I'll make up my mind then.
yeah. she might say things to you. then you can tell your t what she said.
>Unless she sneaks out, the little wench.
yeah. if that happens spontaneously then i think that is very different from someone trying to coax them out...
> Its way too personal, if that makes sense?yeah. even talking about it. even saying what they say... that can be really hard too.
i hope your session goes well.
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