Posted by alexandra_k on December 3, 2005, at 23:21:21
In reply to Re: Poster's remorse again, posted by alexandra_k on December 3, 2005, at 23:18:19
i know what i find hard...
i think about things a lot.
about the 'reason' for my problems etc.
and when a t disregards my take
and imposes their own
(which is typically 'nasty' or 'hurtful' or 'judgemental')
then i don't cope with that very well at all.because i reckon...
you can figure it out.
you want a little help
not someone who says (explicitly or implicitly)
yes dear, but of course your rationale is wrong and these are the 'real' reasons.thats not helping thats hurting
and they have no right to impose their 'truths'
over yours.they are supposed to facilitate you...
at least, thats my take.but i still think...
to give her a chance?
poster:alexandra_k
thread:583331
URL: http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/psycho/20051130/msgs/585256.html