Posted by happyflower on November 30, 2005, at 19:48:28
In his first marriage of 9 years, his wife used therapy to leave my now husband. She said she needed to "find" herself, but what she actually wanted to do is date other guys.
My T says this is common actually. It kinda like saying yeah, we have tried all we can, so we are now getting a divorse. I guess a lot of people use couple therapy , to leave their sposes. My T understands why my DH doesn't want to go through that again.
But what else can we do? My DH is a classic avoider of issues. He is avoiding me now, the jerk. I don't know how I am going to get him to therapy when he had a bad experience. This doesn't look good for our marriage.
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