Posted by alexandra_k on November 27, 2005, at 22:31:33
In reply to Re: you are going to follow your transference » alexandra_k, posted by happyflower on November 27, 2005, at 22:13:48
Hey. I really did not mean to suggest that you hadn't thought about this. I guess I was pretty much thinking... About the transference / love thing. And about the difference between them. And about how you might be able to tell the difference between them.
> I have thought a lot about all of this, reseached the rules, the negative outcomes, I have looked at the positive and the negative. I am still thinking about it, I am not taking it lightly.
Okay.
>Nothing might not even come out of all of this too, I am prepared for that too.
Okay. I guess I'm most worried about something coming out of it. Something coming out of it and it going badly. Badly for you. I really hope... That if your feelings are reciprocated... That you guys do this by the book and respect the two year thing. I really think the intention of that is to protect the both of you. It might seem a little paternalistic... But those cases that do end badly... I think they probably wouldn't have gotten together after a two year break. And if you guys are keen to hook up after a two year break... Then there is so much more of a chance that things will go well there. And he won't have to worry about loss of lisence.
>Thanks for your concern, but could you be a little more gentler about it? I do have feelings too.
Yes. I know you have feelings too. I'm sorry that you feel like I was disrespecting them. Really.
:-((((happyflower)))
I hope you don't go...
I understand about how sometimes it doesn't seem safe to post things to the boards.
And about how sometimes the responses don't seem helpful.
And I really hate it when things go like that :-(You are appreciated here.
I think... I am in a fairly sombre mood, and have been in a fairly sombre mood lately. Very serious and something of a killjoy methinks. Sorry about that.
Don't stop being you.
And please don't stop joking around,
Because you are right
Sometimes humour and lightening up is just what is in order.I hope...
You stick around.
And that you talk through this with people on the boards (as you have been doing)
:-)
Because...
You are valued here.And it can be helpful to post about things and get support
And I'm sorry that you feel that you have been jumped on rather.Take care.
poster:alexandra_k
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