Posted by daisym on November 25, 2005, at 12:15:59
In reply to Is this too personal of a ? to ask my T?, posted by happyflower on November 25, 2005, at 11:45:18
I think you should ask anything you want to in therapy. Heck, I asked my therapist if he was gentle in bed! But be prepared for "what do you imagine?" or half answers -- because by asking you probably won't get the answer to your situation, you will open the door to discuss the possibilities. And that should be very helpful. The fact that he shared so much already will help, I think.
He may give you a more professional opinion of what is good for kids and families. As kids, we usally want our parents to stay together, even in the worst situations. So his personal experience may not match his professional one. He sounds like a good therapist who can sort that out though.
I've struggled with this question a lot so if you want to talk about it more, I'm willing. But we should probably move that part of the discussion to the parents board.
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