Posted by one woman cine on November 22, 2005, at 17:13:50
In reply to Maybe I am seeing his actions all wrong., posted by happyflower on November 21, 2005, at 17:47:06
just my humble opinion, but - no you aren't screwed up. I think if alot of time passes between sessions, things often go unsaid. Does this happen?
Perhaps; hmmm - is it possible to ask him about the mutual attraction? The only way you can hope to find out is by flat asking him, which is uncomfortable; but could have a good outcome - you could find out the truth. But it's better than agonizing guesses.
Transference/counterference is a tricky thing. He may very well have feelings for you, maybe just not the ones you may think. I always find the best policy the articulated word, spoken & heard. Good luck.
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