Posted by happyflower on November 21, 2005, at 13:00:06
In reply to Re: Okay, I can't stand it, I have to talk about my T » happyflower, posted by muffled on November 21, 2005, at 12:46:57
> *Oh Happy, I SO need some lighter stuff today. Thrilled to see your byline and laughed just to see it!
I am glad you are laughing today, but I think your comments make me laugh and smile. :)
> > Then he asks me if I looking forward to my next session. I kinda was caught offguard with this question, so I paused, and then said, yes, as always. Then he asks when my next appointment is, I say 2 weeks, he said wow, that long from now.
> *Whoah!!!!!!!Seriously, WHOAH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Seriously, whoah? So this isn't all in my head, you think?
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> *ROFL!!!!!ROFL!!!ROFL!!!!I think I p my pants!!ROLFL!!!!
> 10 minutes!Thats a LONG, LONG, phone call to a T.
Maybe you better look into some depends of something! LOL I have only talked to my T on the phone only a few times, so I don't know how long is long.
> > So what do you all think of this, knowing > >
> *I think he is smitten with you all right. Scarey to me. You seem so delightful and fun I'm not surprized. I just hope you guys don't get hurt is all. Its all so dangerous. Is it possible you guys could be friends?Or do you just want to get into his pants?
>>Yes, I know we both could get hurt, you are right. This is why I am trying to hold back my feelings and deny them and deny that I think he has feelings for me. But it is getting to the point that I can't hide my attraction for him. I think we could be friends, but yet I am sexually attracted to him too, so I don't know. In fact I think we are both mutually attracted to each other. I can tell. It is scarey and exciting at the same time.
I know a lot of people say it is all transference because normally you don't know anything about your T . Well I know A LOT, with the exception of physical touching, it is like we have dated since this summer. Most people would say, if they knew us, that we would be "perfect" for one another. But of course we are both married, me unhappily, I am not sure how happy is in his marraige , and of course he is my T , so there are rules about that after therapy. I am almost at the point of thinking it would be worth it to be with him. I feel I am looking at all of this pros and cons, I just can't stop my feelings for him.
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