Posted by happyflower on November 17, 2005, at 9:38:49
In reply to Re: How are you doing ---Not so good :( » happyflower, posted by gardenergirl on November 17, 2005, at 8:05:41
I am not sorry I asked, I was wondering about you. I know what you mean about wanting your T to validate what you are thinking and your feelings. Sometime I just want someone to listen and support me, not tell me what I did was wrong. Why can't they read our minds, darn it. LOL
One time my T was doing the same thing, and he caught himself and said I don't know why I am taking your DH side, when I haven't even talked to him or met him. Then he became a little more supportive and listened to me better.Then it sure doesn't help when you have deal with all those feelings until your next session. A week can seem like ages when you are in the middle of something. But sometime it is a good thing because it teaches you that you can manage on your own, and when the next appointment comes around, you don't need to talk about it because you dealt with it. But it is still hard I think.
Marriage is hard, I am learning.
Your not a bad girl, I am sure you know that! If you want I will take your side! :)
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