Posted by orchid on November 17, 2005, at 8:38:57
In reply to Apologies and questions, posted by Tamar on November 17, 2005, at 7:56:26
You have no reason to apologize.
You have been wonderfully supportive to everyone. In fact you have given me as much guidance and support as my therapists have given me. Perhaps even more. I am sure everyone of us feels very indebted to you.
Can you think of any reason why there is a tendency to get depressed now? If you go back to your old T, do you think it would help you? Can you work through your transference towards him and still get your work done? Or would you rather just rely on meds for now and leave the therapy work for later? I am not sure what kind of work you need to do and if therapy will interfere with your work, so I don't know what to suggest.
As to not knowing what words to say, I have also been in the same boat for some time now. I read threads but many times just seem to go blank as to what to say. Perhaps it happens that way after a while because we run out of ideas also. I feel I have pretty much said everything I know in some thread or the other many times. So sometimes I feel there is nothing new for me to say. Perhaps you are feeling something like that.
((Tamar))
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