Posted by orchid on November 14, 2005, at 7:46:34
Tamar,
There is something I wondered for a long time about you. You were pregnant when you had transference towards your T right? How did it feel?
For some reason I always thought if I have a kid or was expecting, I wouldn't feel anything towards any other guy other than my husband. But now I am realizing that perhaps it may not necessarily be so. But isn't it extremely confusing to have a kid of one man and have this intense transference towards another guy? It must be even more confusing than being just wedded to a guy and having transference towards someone else. How did you manage?
Does anyone else with kids want to answer? I am just very curious as I am pondering over maybe trying to having a baby after a few months.
poster:orchid
thread:578536
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