Posted by Tamar on November 9, 2005, at 18:01:56
In reply to I followed my usual advice to others, posted by Dinah on November 8, 2005, at 12:30:35
> And when she put it all together, it did seem connected.
That sounds very good. I do think it’s useful to be able to find connections.
> At any rate, I still like her, and she didn't feel disapproving at all. In fact, she was quite impressed with all the work I've done so far, and how well I understand the issues involved. After only ten years of therapy. ;)
I’m so glad she didn’t seem disapproving. That’s the last thing anyone needs in sex therapy!
> The only thing is that she thinks working on the sexual problems is connected to helping the little girl part of me grow up. And the little girl's gut response is "Nuh-uh, not going to happen my friend!"
That’s understandable. After all, there are all kinds of implications…
> She was pretty much as I expected her to be. Well groomed but not in a trendy way - more classic, a bit older than I am. And she seems to take things with good humor and no shock or disapproval. A good sense of humor is a necessity in working with me. So in being unflappable. So I actually think I can work with her.
I’m so glad. I really hope she will be helpful. It sounds very promising!
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