Posted by Annierose on November 3, 2005, at 11:40:02
In reply to Re: Countdown, posted by Dinah on November 3, 2005, at 8:48:51
Hi Dinah -
Maybe you just miss him. Now you know he is in town, yet, you are still unable to see him, hence your internal conflict. Our minds surely work in complicated ways.Your last thought:
>>>I thought I had begun to break this accursed dependence on a mother figure that just doesn't deserve it. Any more than my own mother deserved any reliance I put on her. I've always known this guy had a majorly unstable life. Why did I allow myself to get in this situation? <<
seems like a sentence worth discussing with your T. I think attachement in therapy is important, a good thing. My T is psychodynamic so she is clear to dismiss my attachement as irrational (as I tell her it feels that way sometimes).
Is this one of your double sessions??? I hope so. I feel for you. It's a very tough spot.
Annie
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