Posted by fallsfall on October 30, 2005, at 15:11:08
In reply to Re: Countdown » fallsfall, posted by Dinah on October 29, 2005, at 23:39:55
That does sound like progress with her and your husband! Good for you.
I hope when you see T1 that you can be sure to do what is right for you. Not for him, but for you. If it isn't going to work, I hope that you can see that and accept it. I think that you HAVE shown in the last couple of months that you CAN survive withouth him. Not that you wouldn't prefer to stay with him - but you have survived this time (and pretty well, from my perspective). You have particular needs, which include frequent contact. If he can't meet those needs then you will be angry and frustrated. And that won't be helpful.
If the two of you can work out some arrangement that meets your needs, that would be great. But please don't work out an arrangement that meets his needs, but not yours.
You are the one that I am concerned about.
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