Posted by fairywings on October 12, 2005, at 23:52:26
In reply to The same old circle, posted by cricket on October 12, 2005, at 11:06:29
Cricket, I'm so sorry that you went through all that crap. Thankfully you were a fighter, and were able to hold your ground, but I can hear how much it beat you up emotionally, and I'm so sorry, it sounds so awful, and you didn't deserve it.
It sounds like your therapist doesn't understand about trauma very much, and he could benefit from reading a book like "trauma and recovery". His saying, "if we decide to do this" is something I just read about in the book. When a T starts to lose confidence in their ability, and starts to have a countertransference. It's terrible that he said those things to you, after you've worked so hard, and I don't blame you one bit for being angry. I hope you'll tell him how it made you feel to have him do this, it's like he's having a problem with being able to deal with this, and that's his issue, not yours.
I hope you will lay your cards on the table.
(((hugs))))
fw
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