Posted by orchid on October 6, 2005, at 15:00:16
In reply to Re: Therapy Experts!!?? » orchid, posted by rainbowbrite on October 6, 2005, at 14:53:23
Why don't you ask him when he is silent? Ask him why he is silent most of the time.
Maybe he is just trying to make you think more about what you said yourself.
My first T was like that - he never wrote too much, but usually after a week or two of me writing my stuff, I will get clarity on it myself. Maybe your T is adapting a strategy like that. But in anycase, if it is bothering you, maybe you should ask. Even I felt with my first T it would have been better if he had wrote back more and guided me more instead of leaving most of it to myself to figure out.
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