Posted by fairywings on September 12, 2005, at 7:23:41
In reply to Re: *Trigger* Why crying isn't okay *Trigger*, posted by happyflower on September 11, 2005, at 18:20:52
>> But as an adult if she tried to lay a hand on me, she would regret that she ever touched me. But as a child I was helpless and trapped. Yes, I was trained not to cry or something worse would happen. I only cry in front of my DH and sometimes my kids, because I know I am safe.
I'm wishing now that my dad was alive so i could take all of my anger out on him, now he's dead and i can't. i guess it's a good thing for me because maybe i'd end up in jail, but do you think you'll ever regret not taking your anger out on her in a physical way? i'm not encouraging you, but i just wonder if you want to?and most of the time i can't cry, and i feel disconnected from my feelings that have to do with the childhood stuff. sometimes parents suck.
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