Posted by Damos on September 11, 2005, at 18:31:21
In reply to Re: better today.., posted by alexandra_k on September 11, 2005, at 16:32:47
But if you weren't you anymore all our worlds would be the poorer. Who else is going to pose the 'Big' questions and hold our hands through the analysis and explanation.
Do you wonder whether the 'reactiveness' is more in you than of you, and that it and the not being able to experience emotional states the way you'd like to is really some form of protective mechanism that has served you well in the past, but that now you want to grow out of - isn't working for you anymore?
When I read your posts to everyone on the things that 'really' matter you are reliable, consistent and dependable, kind, sensitive and supportive.
I think most of us 'want' to be different in one way or another, and I reckon we all struggle with the 'how to' part. No-one expects you to be perfect - except maybe you.
poster:Damos
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