Re: This is a tantrum » daisym

Posted by Shortelise on September 7, 2005, at 12:22:04

In reply to This is a tantrum, posted by daisym on September 6, 2005, at 20:37:50

Ah yes, the "perfect parent" thing again. Ugh. I hate when that happens, and it happens over and over again.
Daisy, we just have to face it: we have to ask for what we need sometimes. It's not fair to ourselves and to those who care about us to expect them to read our minds. We can't read their's so why would we expect them to read ours? I know, I do too, and when my T is not on the wave-length where I need him to be, I feel resentful, abandoned, hurt. It's so foolish, but such a true feeling.
This might not sound sympathetic, but it is. I do feel for you.
ShortE

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