Posted by rs on September 7, 2005, at 6:31:31
In reply to Hugs from T?, posted by luvdove on September 7, 2005, at 6:11:01
Hi.
This is a tough one. Some T IMO feel too much to risk. I really think it is how the T is. My former T that I saw for years would never even think of touch. But the one I see now has given me hugs and is ok with it. I have felt so comforted by this and helped much. There is nothing nothing romantic with my feelings for my T but just the hugs is felt like a way of support and caring here.
If your T does refuse please do not take it personally which I know I would. I would think that some T would worry about issues around touch etc.
Talk to your T about this might help.
Wish you the best on this and it is ok to feel like this. Hey I know here T is the first person that ever showed caring and trust in a safe way.
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