Posted by kerria on August 28, 2005, at 13:46:15
In reply to Re: Therapists and Babble » All Done, posted by alexandra_k on August 24, 2005, at 16:13:02
Hi. a few times i told my T about babble and about other places that i post and he said that he doesn't have time to read either.
If i become upset by something said against me at the forum- or something i don't agree with T will take the side against me.
It gets me so angry with T how he doesn't take my side so many times-- he said "If enough people say something (about me) than it's probably true."
It's really hard when you have parts inside that don't take my side either.A support group is supposed to be supportive and here it really is for the most part- very supportive compared to other boards- where they try to 'fix' what they see wrong with you. All they have to work with is the viewpoint of one or two of your parts besides.. What a mess.
i think my T did read here though because last week he said things out of the blue like, i really care about you- not just like a job- like my job caring for plant material- i wouldn't care that much if i lost a couple of plants but if he lost a couple of patients..something like that.
i asked if he had favorite patients.
he said No - every one is different. A parent cares about every child the same. T's caring is Less than a parent and more than just a job. T cares 'Inbetween.'kerria
just a plant
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