Posted by gardenergirl on August 26, 2005, at 14:47:07
In reply to New T, posted by fairywings on August 26, 2005, at 9:45:03
Sounds like a good T. I'm glad you are feeling comfortable enough to go forward with it.
As far as the candle is concerned, how about: "I'm quite sensitive to strong smells, and while the candle is a nice scent, it is too overwhelming for me. I would prefer if you would not have it lit when i am here."
??? Seems perfectly reasonable to me. I would respect your request and be pleased that you were able to express it.
gg
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