Posted by fairywings on August 22, 2005, at 11:15:41
In reply to Re: Starting over again/Missing my ex-T » fairywings, posted by Fallsfall on August 21, 2005, at 13:04:24
LOL, sure, it will be fun to come clean your house, let's do it together! We'll talk, clean, have lunch, clean, play on the computer! clean, have dinner, slumber party! Fun!
Anyway, I read the most awesome book called
"Boundaries: Where You..." by Anne Katherine, and I decided it's just too damned bad if the old T doesn't like it that I'm seeing the new one, it's his problem. He created the problem by crossing the line with me when he asked inappropriate questions, and it's not my responsibility to worry about his feelings. Whew! I feel that way today. I then have to hope the new T won't have any freaking issues with me! LOLLet's clean!
fw
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