Posted by jadah on August 18, 2005, at 20:04:26
In reply to Re: I'm afraid my therapist is going to dump me., posted by madeline on August 18, 2005, at 19:48:34
what do you think he meant by what he said? Knowing that sex would never happen, what were you afraid of? Do you feel violated? What would it take for you to feel safe again? How have you two addressed this issue? Can you be completely honest with him about what you are feeling? Five years is a long time. If you can work through this and feel that the relationship is worth saving then try. Sometimes, we get from someone all that we are going to get and then we need to move on. There might be another T out there that can help you further along on your journey. Be good to yourself.
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