Posted by orchid on August 16, 2005, at 17:53:20
I am congratulating myself !!!
I have fully recovered from my transference issues with my ex-ex-t. I have completely worked out of it, and it doens't bother me even a bit.
All those pain, and hurt, and longing - they are all completely gone.
And it has all become like a distant memory. And I no longer even wonder if he will write to me, or even wish that he would write to me.
And I don't have any anger or intense feelings or pain towards the termination or its abruptness etc.
I don't dream of him at all nowadays.
I can't even remember what it used to feel like.
Any body wants to say "Good Job" to me?? :-)
So, if anybody is hurting, keep hope. It is really possible with efforts and time and patience. The key is understanding yourself.
poster:orchid
thread:542598
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