Posted by madeline on August 15, 2005, at 17:30:14
In reply to My best friend is like a race horse.., posted by orchid on August 15, 2005, at 16:43:23
Try to remind yourself why she is your best friend, then you could (1) try to just opt out of any competition and (2) explain to her how her competitive spirit makes you feel when you are around her. Be as honest as you can, but I don't think you are going to change her very much.
Her husband and her children, as much as I know you care really aren't your problem or responsibility.I think you should focus on how she makes you feel and why you continue to be friends.
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