Posted by daisym on July 30, 2005, at 14:04:27
In reply to Re: I second you, posted by messadivoce on July 29, 2005, at 23:43:55
It sounds like the whole thing got muddled because he was trying to ease out and not hurt you, but like most things that go this way, he did anyway. You know a bad break up, "let's be friends?" but that isn't honest? This is exactly what I meant by honest disclosure above, he should have faced your grief and helped you move on. I don't remember if he was staying in the field or just moving away... but if he is still a practicing therapist, contact of a theraputic sense should be fine. If the emails were "how are you, how is the family" these would be considered social. And I think due to so many law suits and stuff the whole field has become ultra shy about this.
I'm sorry you are hurting so much.
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