Posted by pinkeye on July 24, 2005, at 14:07:31
In reply to Just to clarify, posted by messadivoce on July 24, 2005, at 2:18:18
Hi Messadivoce,
Is there any way you can not invite the guy's family to the wedding? I think you should stick up for yourself, and say a Big No to that guy. And not invite him because of your parents connections to his family.
I know it is really a hard thing to do, but I think it would really help you heal. Sometimes, we just need to be firm in sticking up for ourselves, to give us a sense of well being. If you invite this guys family because of social pressure, you will not develop a sense of self worth and heal.. and from what I see, that is very important.
poster:pinkeye
thread:532164
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