Posted by pinkeye on July 21, 2005, at 17:44:06
In reply to Re: poignant moment in session » pinkeye, posted by spalding on July 21, 2005, at 17:31:21
> pinkeye, this is exactly how I feel about my situation. He pursued his dream job and got it. Is so together. Happy. And in quite the contrast, I behaved badly at times in our short relationship and was all over the place with undiagnosed BPD. I have my regrets and wish I could have been as single-minded as he...but I'm very glad he's happy.
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> Thanks for your sage words!
Yeah - it is sometimes sad when we are not exactly what we wanted to be.. But perhaps it is not too late.. And even with this friend, sometimes I think, it is best we didn't end up together.. We wouldn't have been good together.. My life is much rougher compared to his, and it would have been hard for both of us to adjust to each other's style.. We would have ended up making each others life a mess if we had ended up together.. I am happy for him, but I don't want anything to do with him in my life now.. At a distance it is good, but not with each other. He also told me I am an amazing person, and that he would always like me a lot, and I have the same feeling, but I dont want to be with him or share his life..
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