Posted by spalding on July 21, 2005, at 17:31:21
In reply to Re: poignant moment in session » spalding, posted by pinkeye on July 21, 2005, at 15:37:51
pinkeye, this is exactly how I feel about my situation. He pursued his dream job and got it. Is so together. Happy. And in quite the contrast, I behaved badly at times in our short relationship and was all over the place with undiagnosed BPD. I have my regrets and wish I could have been as single-minded as he...but I'm very glad he's happy.
Thanks for your sage words!
> I have a friend like that too.. I had a huge crush on him, but he was married, but we always ended up with soft corner for each other.. he made such wise decisions, and his marriage is such a bliss and he is such a happy person, and has made great progress in career - I almost envy him sometime and wish I could have been like him.. I wanted to be like him so very badly.. But I couldn't. I kept thinking if I didn't have all my problems, I would have been like him myself.. But it is always nice to receive an occassional email from him.
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