Posted by Dinah on July 19, 2005, at 18:18:04
In reply to Re: Just Needin to Babble, posted by LadyBug on July 19, 2005, at 17:00:18
Ok, maybe I'm projecting here too.
But maybe the anger at her has to do with thinking about termination. Even though it's not her who's terminating, you know that you're more independent now, and could you be stompingly angry that she's allowing you to move away?
So angry that even though *she* suggested seeing you more often, and even though she squeezed you in, you're angry that she doesn't see you as vulnerable as you once were? So maybe you want to prove to her (and to you) that you are every bit as vulnerable as ever and no where near ready to leave her.
And how *dare* she think you might possibly one day in the next few years be ready to?
poster:Dinah
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