Posted by pinkeye on July 15, 2005, at 18:21:12
In reply to Re: What happened with my ex T was for the best !!, posted by happyflower on July 14, 2005, at 20:51:41
Yeah, it took a lot of hard struggle to come to this point.. But I think I have perhaps stopped caring that much. Somehow have started feeling it is not worth it to go through so much of hurt and pain.. And I think he never really cared too much anyway either.. he did care a little bit as his patient, but didn't really bother too much about me I think.. otherwise he wouldn't have let me suffer like that irrespective of questions about ethics and all that .. it is just impossible for anyone to keep completely silent when a person you care goes through so much of pain. And maybe it is quite fair... And it is only fair that I end up minding my own business focussing on building my life with my husband instead of trying to work through transference etc.... Good for me, good for my ex T, good for everyone.
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